Books 2013 - Many
Feb. 16th, 2013 07:29 pmPeacful Journey - Shelley Lynne Cummins - a book of a few yoga poses, yantras, and aromatherapy, which came with a cd ith mantras on it. I've had it for years, and this might be a re-read.
Motherless Brooklyn - Jonathan Lethem - I lived in Brooklyn for at least part of the time covered in this book. Stylistically very interesting, and not too bad for an "arty" sort of book. A decent mystery as well. I don't see much re-read value, and won't be keeping it.
Stuff: Compulsive Hoarding and the Meaning of Things - Steketee and Frost - nook - fascinating book. I recognized a lot of the behaviors in the book, both from myself and others, and I am thankful that I managed to not follow that path....
Where's My Cow? - Terry Pratchett - fantastic! especially if you already know Discworld.
Go the F*** to Sleep - ??? - I can only imagine it's better if you have a child, and I thought it was amusing.
The Constant Gardener - John Le Carre - Suspenseful read; new bad guys, now that the USSR is no more....
Fair Game - Patricia Briggs - I think the best of the Alpha/Omega series, and just the right substantial fluff I needed....
North and South - Elizabeth Gaskell - Absolutely amazing. Seriously, I think the author is every bit as good as Austen, though with a different tone, and certainly better than Dickens.
The Merchant's War
The Revolution Business
The Trade of Queens - Charlie Stross - really, I was probably in these at just the time that I posted the last book thread about 7 weeks ago. Excellent series, recommend.
The Glenstal Book of Prayer - should technically be in 2012. Oh well. I am looking for new and interesting prayers, and this book had some of those in it.
The Snow Queen - Mercedes Lackey - again with the substantial fluff. It's that type of life for me right now, folks!
The Faded Sun: Kesrith
The Faded Sun: Shonjir - C. J. Cherryh - (I'm in the middle of the third now.) Interesting story of an after-the-war, of interstellar politics, and of cultures that don't really understand each other.
Year's total: 14
Motherless Brooklyn - Jonathan Lethem - I lived in Brooklyn for at least part of the time covered in this book. Stylistically very interesting, and not too bad for an "arty" sort of book. A decent mystery as well. I don't see much re-read value, and won't be keeping it.
Stuff: Compulsive Hoarding and the Meaning of Things - Steketee and Frost - nook - fascinating book. I recognized a lot of the behaviors in the book, both from myself and others, and I am thankful that I managed to not follow that path....
Where's My Cow? - Terry Pratchett - fantastic! especially if you already know Discworld.
Go the F*** to Sleep - ??? - I can only imagine it's better if you have a child, and I thought it was amusing.
The Constant Gardener - John Le Carre - Suspenseful read; new bad guys, now that the USSR is no more....
Fair Game - Patricia Briggs - I think the best of the Alpha/Omega series, and just the right substantial fluff I needed....
North and South - Elizabeth Gaskell - Absolutely amazing. Seriously, I think the author is every bit as good as Austen, though with a different tone, and certainly better than Dickens.
The Merchant's War
The Revolution Business
The Trade of Queens - Charlie Stross - really, I was probably in these at just the time that I posted the last book thread about 7 weeks ago. Excellent series, recommend.
The Glenstal Book of Prayer - should technically be in 2012. Oh well. I am looking for new and interesting prayers, and this book had some of those in it.
The Snow Queen - Mercedes Lackey - again with the substantial fluff. It's that type of life for me right now, folks!
The Faded Sun: Kesrith
The Faded Sun: Shonjir - C. J. Cherryh - (I'm in the middle of the third now.) Interesting story of an after-the-war, of interstellar politics, and of cultures that don't really understand each other.
Year's total: 14
Books 2012 - 7
Dec. 31st, 2012 02:22 pmThe Wrong Reflection - Gillian Bradshaw - excellent science fiction. I don't want to spoil it, so I will just recommend it.
Mort - Terry Pratchett - okay Pratchett is good, and this is okay Pratchett
Jane Austen's Town and Country Style - Susan Watkins - worth the read to get a visual on various Regency houses, dinnerware, styles, etc.
Prince of Annwn - Evangeline Walton - retelling of the first branch of the Mabinogenon. I am probably going to read the rest of the series, which I have, then let them go.
The Family Trade -
The Hidden Family -
The Clan Corporate - Charlie Stross - fascinating series. Just the thing to disappear into on holidays when I don't want to deal with anyone.
Year's total: 122
Today is a vacation day, and I am sitting here in the living room, a the cat curled up beside me, catching up on all sorts of niggling little to dos and generally feeling both relaxed and productive.
Mort - Terry Pratchett - okay Pratchett is good, and this is okay Pratchett
Jane Austen's Town and Country Style - Susan Watkins - worth the read to get a visual on various Regency houses, dinnerware, styles, etc.
Prince of Annwn - Evangeline Walton - retelling of the first branch of the Mabinogenon. I am probably going to read the rest of the series, which I have, then let them go.
The Family Trade -
The Hidden Family -
The Clan Corporate - Charlie Stross - fascinating series. Just the thing to disappear into on holidays when I don't want to deal with anyone.
Year's total: 122
Today is a vacation day, and I am sitting here in the living room, a the cat curled up beside me, catching up on all sorts of niggling little to dos and generally feeling both relaxed and productive.
Stolen from starcat-jewel on lj
Another "I've read that" meme. This one is the lists of "best SF and fantasy novels" compiled by Locus from a survey. Bold are those I've read, italic are those I started but gave up on, and normal are those I haven't read.
I bolded & italicized the ones sitting on my shelf, not-yet-read.
20th Century SF Novel:
1 Herbert, Frank: Dune (1965)
2 Card, Orson Scott: Ender's Game (1985)
3 Asimov, Isaac: The Foundation Trilogy (1953)
4 Simmons, Dan: Hyperion (1989)
5 Le Guin, Ursula K.: The Left Hand of Darkness (1969)
6 Adams, Douglas: The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (1979)
7 Orwell, George: Nineteen Eighty-Four (1949)
8 Gibson, William: Neuromancer (1984)
9 Bester, Alfred: The Stars My Destination (1957)
10 Bradbury, Ray: Fahrenheit 451 (1953)
11 Heinlein, Robert A.: Stranger in a Strange Land (1961)
12 Heinlein, Robert A.: The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress (1966)
13 Haldeman, Joe: The Forever War (1974)
14 Clarke, Arthur C.: Childhood's End (1953)
15 Niven, Larry: Ringworld (1970)
16 Le Guin, Ursula K.: The Dispossessed (1974)
17 Bradbury, Ray: The Martian Chronicles (1950)
18 Stephenson, Neal: Snow Crash (1992)
19 Miller, Walter M. , Jr.: A Canticle for Leibowitz (1959)
20 Pohl, Frederik: Gateway (1977)
21 Heinlein, Robert A.: Starship Troopers (1959)
22 Dick, Philip K.: The Man in the High Castle (1962)
23 Zelazny, Roger: Lord of Light (1967)
24 Wolfe, Gene: The Book of the New Sun (1983)
25 Lem, Stanislaw: Solaris (1970)
26 Dick, Philip K.: Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep? (1968)
27 Vinge, Vernor: A Fire Upon The Deep (1992)
28 Clarke, Arthur C.: Rendezvous with Rama (1973)
29 Huxley, Aldous: Brave New World (1932)
30 Clarke, Arthur C.: 2001: A Space Odyssey (1968)
31 Vonnegut, Kurt: Slaughterhouse-Five (1969)
32 Strugatsky, Arkady & Boris: Roadside Picnic (1972)
33 Card, Orson Scott: Speaker for the Dead (1986)
34 Brunner, John: Stand on Zanzibar (1968)
35 Robinson, Kim Stanley: Red Mars (1992)
36 Niven, Larry (& Pournelle, Jerry): The Mote in God's Eye (1974)
37 Willis, Connie: Doomsday Book (1992)
38 Atwood, Margaret: The Handmaid's Tale (1985)
39 Sturgeon, Theodore: More Than Human (1953)
40 Simak, Clifford D.: City (1952)
41 Brin, David: Startide Rising (1983)
42 Asimov, Isaac: Foundation (1950)
43 Farmer, Philip Jose: To Your Scattered Bodies Go (1971)
44 Dick, Philip K.: Ubik (1969)
45 Vonnegut, Kurt: Cat's Cradle (1963)
46 Vinge, Vernor: A Deepness in the Sky (1999)
47 Simak, Clifford D.: Way Station (1963)
48 Wyndham, John: The Day of the Triffids (1951)
49 Keyes, Daniel: Flowers for Algernon (1966)
49 Delany, Samuel R.: Dhalgren (1975)
20th Century Fantasy Novel:
1 Tolkien, J. R. R.: The Lord of the Rings (1955)
2 Martin, George R. R.: A Game of Thrones (1996)
3 Tolkien, J. R. R.: The Hobbit (1937)
4 Le Guin, Ursula K.: A Wizard of Earthsea (1968)
5 Zelazny, Roger: Nine Princes in Amber (1970)
6 Lewis, C. S.: The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe (1950)
7 Mieville, China: Perdido Street Station (2000)
8 Rowling, J. K.: Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone (1997)
9 Crowley, John: Little, Big (1981)
10 Adams, Richard: Watership Down (1972)
11 Goldman, William: The Princess Bride (1973)
12 Martin, George R. R.: A Storm of Swords (2000)
13 Beagle, Peter S.: The Last Unicorn (1968)
14 White, T. H.: The Once and Future King (1958)
15 Pratchett, Terry (& Gaiman, Neil): Good Omens (1990)
16 Kay, Guy Gavriel: Tigana (1990)
17 Gaiman, Neil: Neverwhere (1996)
18 Wolfe, Gene: The Book of the New Sun (1983)
19 Vance, Jack: The Dying Earth (1950)
20 Bulgakov, Mikhail: The Master and Margarita (1967)
21 Rowling, J. K.: Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire (2000)
22 Tolkien, J. R. R.: The Silmarillion (1977)
23 Leiber, Fritz: The Swords of Lankhmar (1968)
24 Jordan, Robert: The Eye of the World (1990)
25 Donaldson, Stephen R.: Lord Foul's Bane (1977)
26 Bradbury, Ray: Something Wicked This Way Comes (1962)
27 Peake, Mervyn: Gormenghast (1950)
28 Rowling, J. K.: Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban (1999)
29 Powers, Tim: The Anubis Gates (1983)
30 Martin, George R. R.: A Clash of Kings (1998)
31 Bradley, Marion Zimmer: The Mists of Avalon (1983)
32 Hobb, Robin: Assassin's Apprentice (1995)
33 Pratchett, Terry: The Colour of Magic (1983)
34 Holdstock, Robert: Mythago Wood (1984)
35 King, Stephen: The Stand (1978)
36 L'Engle, Madeleine: A Wrinkle in Time (1962)
36 Pratchett, Terry: Small Gods (1992)
38 Ende, Michael: The Neverending Story (1983)
39 Peake, Mervyn: Titus Groan (1946)
40 Howard, Robert E.: Conan the Barbarian (1950)
note, I read a lot of conan in the early. 1980s, and I assume this was one
41 McCaffrey, Anne: Dragonflight (1968)
42 Orwell: George: Animal Farm (1945)
43 Feist, Raymond E.: Magician (1982)
44 Silverberg, Robert: Lord Valentine's Castle (1980)
45 Lovecraft, H. P.: At the Mountains of Madness (1936)
46 Swanwick, Michael: The Iron Dragon's Daughter (1993)
47 King, Stephen: The Shining (1977)
48 Garcia Marquez, Gabriel: One Hundred Years of Solitude (1970)
49 Saint-Exupery, Antoine de: The Little Prince (1943)
50 Hughart, Barry: Bridge of Birds (1984)
21st Century SF Novel:
1 Scalzi, John: Old Man's War (2005)
2 Stephenson, Neal: Anathem (2008)
3 Bacigalupi, Paolo: The Windup Girl (2009)
4 Wilson, Robert Charles: Spin (2005)
5 Watts, Peter: Blindsight (2006)
6 Morgan, Richard: Altered Carbon (2002)
7 Collins, Suzanne: The Hunger Games (2008)
8 Gibson, William: Pattern Recognition (2003)
9 Mieville, China: The City & the City (2009)
10 Stross, Charles: Accelerando (2005)
11 Mitchell, David: Cloud Atlas (2004)
12 McDonald, Ian: River of Gods (2004)
13 McCarthy, Cormac: The Road (2006)
14 Harrison, M. John: Light (2002)
15 Willis, Connie: Black Out/All Clear (2010)
15 Chabon, Michael: The Yiddish Policemen's Union (2007)
21st Century Fantasy Novel:
1 Gaiman, Neil: American Gods (2001)
2 Clarke, Susanna: Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell (2004)
3 Rothfuss, Patrick: The Name of the Wind (2007)
4 Mieville, China: The Scar (2002)
5 Martin, George R. R.: A Feast for Crows (2005)
6 Rowling, J. K.: Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows (2007)
7 Bujold, Lois McMaster: The Curse of Chalion (2001)
8 Mieville, China: The City & the City (2009)
9 Fforde, Jasper: The Eyre Affair (2001)
10 Bujold, Lois McMaster: Paladin of Souls (2003)
10 Pratchett, Terry: Night Watch (2002)
12 Gaiman, Neil: Coraline (2002)
13 Wolfe, Gene: The Wizard Knight (2004)
14 Pratchett, Terry: Going Postal (2004)
15 Gaiman, Neil: The Graveyard Book (2008)
15 Lynch, Scott: The Lies of Locke Lamora (2006)
Another "I've read that" meme. This one is the lists of "best SF and fantasy novels" compiled by Locus from a survey. Bold are those I've read, italic are those I started but gave up on, and normal are those I haven't read.
I bolded & italicized the ones sitting on my shelf, not-yet-read.
20th Century SF Novel:
1 Herbert, Frank: Dune (1965)
2 Card, Orson Scott: Ender's Game (1985)
3 Asimov, Isaac: The Foundation Trilogy (1953)
4 Simmons, Dan: Hyperion (1989)
5 Le Guin, Ursula K.: The Left Hand of Darkness (1969)
6 Adams, Douglas: The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (1979)
7 Orwell, George: Nineteen Eighty-Four (1949)
8 Gibson, William: Neuromancer (1984)
9 Bester, Alfred: The Stars My Destination (1957)
10 Bradbury, Ray: Fahrenheit 451 (1953)
11 Heinlein, Robert A.: Stranger in a Strange Land (1961)
12 Heinlein, Robert A.: The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress (1966)
13 Haldeman, Joe: The Forever War (1974)
14 Clarke, Arthur C.: Childhood's End (1953)
15 Niven, Larry: Ringworld (1970)
16 Le Guin, Ursula K.: The Dispossessed (1974)
17 Bradbury, Ray: The Martian Chronicles (1950)
18 Stephenson, Neal: Snow Crash (1992)
19 Miller, Walter M. , Jr.: A Canticle for Leibowitz (1959)
20 Pohl, Frederik: Gateway (1977)
21 Heinlein, Robert A.: Starship Troopers (1959)
22 Dick, Philip K.: The Man in the High Castle (1962)
23 Zelazny, Roger: Lord of Light (1967)
24 Wolfe, Gene: The Book of the New Sun (1983)
25 Lem, Stanislaw: Solaris (1970)
26 Dick, Philip K.: Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep? (1968)
27 Vinge, Vernor: A Fire Upon The Deep (1992)
28 Clarke, Arthur C.: Rendezvous with Rama (1973)
29 Huxley, Aldous: Brave New World (1932)
30 Clarke, Arthur C.: 2001: A Space Odyssey (1968)
31 Vonnegut, Kurt: Slaughterhouse-Five (1969)
32 Strugatsky, Arkady & Boris: Roadside Picnic (1972)
33 Card, Orson Scott: Speaker for the Dead (1986)
34 Brunner, John: Stand on Zanzibar (1968)
35 Robinson, Kim Stanley: Red Mars (1992)
36 Niven, Larry (& Pournelle, Jerry): The Mote in God's Eye (1974)
37 Willis, Connie: Doomsday Book (1992)
38 Atwood, Margaret: The Handmaid's Tale (1985)
39 Sturgeon, Theodore: More Than Human (1953)
40 Simak, Clifford D.: City (1952)
41 Brin, David: Startide Rising (1983)
42 Asimov, Isaac: Foundation (1950)
43 Farmer, Philip Jose: To Your Scattered Bodies Go (1971)
44 Dick, Philip K.: Ubik (1969)
45 Vonnegut, Kurt: Cat's Cradle (1963)
46 Vinge, Vernor: A Deepness in the Sky (1999)
47 Simak, Clifford D.: Way Station (1963)
48 Wyndham, John: The Day of the Triffids (1951)
49 Keyes, Daniel: Flowers for Algernon (1966)
49 Delany, Samuel R.: Dhalgren (1975)
20th Century Fantasy Novel:
1 Tolkien, J. R. R.: The Lord of the Rings (1955)
2 Martin, George R. R.: A Game of Thrones (1996)
3 Tolkien, J. R. R.: The Hobbit (1937)
4 Le Guin, Ursula K.: A Wizard of Earthsea (1968)
5 Zelazny, Roger: Nine Princes in Amber (1970)
6 Lewis, C. S.: The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe (1950)
7 Mieville, China: Perdido Street Station (2000)
8 Rowling, J. K.: Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone (1997)
9 Crowley, John: Little, Big (1981)
10 Adams, Richard: Watership Down (1972)
11 Goldman, William: The Princess Bride (1973)
12 Martin, George R. R.: A Storm of Swords (2000)
13 Beagle, Peter S.: The Last Unicorn (1968)
14 White, T. H.: The Once and Future King (1958)
15 Pratchett, Terry (& Gaiman, Neil): Good Omens (1990)
16 Kay, Guy Gavriel: Tigana (1990)
17 Gaiman, Neil: Neverwhere (1996)
18 Wolfe, Gene: The Book of the New Sun (1983)
19 Vance, Jack: The Dying Earth (1950)
20 Bulgakov, Mikhail: The Master and Margarita (1967)
21 Rowling, J. K.: Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire (2000)
22 Tolkien, J. R. R.: The Silmarillion (1977)
23 Leiber, Fritz: The Swords of Lankhmar (1968)
24 Jordan, Robert: The Eye of the World (1990)
25 Donaldson, Stephen R.: Lord Foul's Bane (1977)
26 Bradbury, Ray: Something Wicked This Way Comes (1962)
27 Peake, Mervyn: Gormenghast (1950)
28 Rowling, J. K.: Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban (1999)
29 Powers, Tim: The Anubis Gates (1983)
30 Martin, George R. R.: A Clash of Kings (1998)
31 Bradley, Marion Zimmer: The Mists of Avalon (1983)
32 Hobb, Robin: Assassin's Apprentice (1995)
33 Pratchett, Terry: The Colour of Magic (1983)
34 Holdstock, Robert: Mythago Wood (1984)
35 King, Stephen: The Stand (1978)
36 L'Engle, Madeleine: A Wrinkle in Time (1962)
36 Pratchett, Terry: Small Gods (1992)
38 Ende, Michael: The Neverending Story (1983)
39 Peake, Mervyn: Titus Groan (1946)
40 Howard, Robert E.: Conan the Barbarian (1950)
note, I read a lot of conan in the early. 1980s, and I assume this was one
41 McCaffrey, Anne: Dragonflight (1968)
42 Orwell: George: Animal Farm (1945)
43 Feist, Raymond E.: Magician (1982)
44 Silverberg, Robert: Lord Valentine's Castle (1980)
45 Lovecraft, H. P.: At the Mountains of Madness (1936)
46 Swanwick, Michael: The Iron Dragon's Daughter (1993)
47 King, Stephen: The Shining (1977)
48 Garcia Marquez, Gabriel: One Hundred Years of Solitude (1970)
49 Saint-Exupery, Antoine de: The Little Prince (1943)
50 Hughart, Barry: Bridge of Birds (1984)
21st Century SF Novel:
1 Scalzi, John: Old Man's War (2005)
2 Stephenson, Neal: Anathem (2008)
3 Bacigalupi, Paolo: The Windup Girl (2009)
4 Wilson, Robert Charles: Spin (2005)
5 Watts, Peter: Blindsight (2006)
6 Morgan, Richard: Altered Carbon (2002)
7 Collins, Suzanne: The Hunger Games (2008)
8 Gibson, William: Pattern Recognition (2003)
9 Mieville, China: The City & the City (2009)
10 Stross, Charles: Accelerando (2005)
11 Mitchell, David: Cloud Atlas (2004)
12 McDonald, Ian: River of Gods (2004)
13 McCarthy, Cormac: The Road (2006)
14 Harrison, M. John: Light (2002)
15 Willis, Connie: Black Out/All Clear (2010)
15 Chabon, Michael: The Yiddish Policemen's Union (2007)
21st Century Fantasy Novel:
1 Gaiman, Neil: American Gods (2001)
2 Clarke, Susanna: Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell (2004)
3 Rothfuss, Patrick: The Name of the Wind (2007)
4 Mieville, China: The Scar (2002)
5 Martin, George R. R.: A Feast for Crows (2005)
6 Rowling, J. K.: Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows (2007)
7 Bujold, Lois McMaster: The Curse of Chalion (2001)
8 Mieville, China: The City & the City (2009)
9 Fforde, Jasper: The Eyre Affair (2001)
10 Bujold, Lois McMaster: Paladin of Souls (2003)
10 Pratchett, Terry: Night Watch (2002)
12 Gaiman, Neil: Coraline (2002)
13 Wolfe, Gene: The Wizard Knight (2004)
14 Pratchett, Terry: Going Postal (2004)
15 Gaiman, Neil: The Graveyard Book (2008)
15 Lynch, Scott: The Lies of Locke Lamora (2006)
Books 2012 - 14
Dec. 2nd, 2012 04:50 pmThe Secret History of the Pink Carnation - Lauren Willig - amusing fluff - sort of fits right with The Scarlet Pimpernel. May or may not read the series.
Sakuran: Blossom Wild - Moyoco Anno - manga. Not what I'd expected. I suppose I'd hoped for more depth, and a different ending.
Rimrunners - C.J. Cherryh - excellent SF, set in the Alliance-Union universe.
Red Threads - Rex Stout - decent mystery.
The Needlework of Mary Queen of Scots - Margaret Swain - Not enough pictures in color for me. Will not be keeping.
Kalpa Imperial - Angela Gorodischer; trans U. LeGuin - very odd sort of book. A series of shorter vingettes, sort of dreamy and story-telly.
The Last Warrior Queen - Mary Mackey - just ... not that good.
Lessons after Dark - Isabel Cooper - excellent romance.
Fever Season - ed. Cherryh - Merovingen nights series. Most good.
Healer - F. Paul Wilson - reminds me of Foundation, but a completely different story. Lent to Dad.
The Fair Folk - anthology - very good set of stories about the Gentry.
Dragonfield and Other Stories - Jane Yolen - nice set of short stories by one author.
Cold Days - Jim Butcher - the latest Harry Dresden. What can I say? What an ending!
Captain Vorpatril's Allianc - Lois McMaster Bujold - highly recommend the whole series. Excellent reading for Thanksgiving with the family.
Year's total: 115
Sakuran: Blossom Wild - Moyoco Anno - manga. Not what I'd expected. I suppose I'd hoped for more depth, and a different ending.
Rimrunners - C.J. Cherryh - excellent SF, set in the Alliance-Union universe.
Red Threads - Rex Stout - decent mystery.
The Needlework of Mary Queen of Scots - Margaret Swain - Not enough pictures in color for me. Will not be keeping.
Kalpa Imperial - Angela Gorodischer; trans U. LeGuin - very odd sort of book. A series of shorter vingettes, sort of dreamy and story-telly.
The Last Warrior Queen - Mary Mackey - just ... not that good.
Lessons after Dark - Isabel Cooper - excellent romance.
Fever Season - ed. Cherryh - Merovingen nights series. Most good.
Healer - F. Paul Wilson - reminds me of Foundation, but a completely different story. Lent to Dad.
The Fair Folk - anthology - very good set of stories about the Gentry.
Dragonfield and Other Stories - Jane Yolen - nice set of short stories by one author.
Cold Days - Jim Butcher - the latest Harry Dresden. What can I say? What an ending!
Captain Vorpatril's Allianc - Lois McMaster Bujold - highly recommend the whole series. Excellent reading for Thanksgiving with the family.
Year's total: 115
Books 2012 - 16
Oct. 22nd, 2012 09:26 pm3 to the Highest Power - 3 novellas? Novellettes? by Sturgeon, Bradbury, and Oliver. Dated, and unmemorable.
A Companion to Wolves - Elizabeth Bear and Sarah Monette - interesting, and deals with the implications from the Pern books. I recall reading something about how the wolf packs are very far off real wolf packs, which are family groups.
Black Horses for the King - Anne McCaffery - nice YA King Arthur about how the horses came to Britain.
The Between - Tananarive Due - horror, and thus not my bag, but an interesting story and well told.
Magic in Ithkar 2 - anthology - science fiction/ fantasy and a nice collection of stories.
The Chinese Gold Murders - Robert Van Gulik - decent enough mystery, part of a set and I've read one of the others.
Mr. Campion, Criminologist - Margery Allingham - decent enough collection of Campion short stories. Mystery.
No Love Lost - Margery Allingham - not mystery stories, and sort of only okay.
Dead on Sunday - A. J. Orde - I like these mysteries, and this is no exception.
The Crown Jewels - Walter Jon Williams - nice light amusement of high society.
Final Curtain - Ngaio Marsh - one of the Alleyn series. Focusses on his wife, and a good read. I will probably hunt out the others.
The Golden Key - Melanie Rawn, Kate Elliot, Jennifer Roberson - a good read (vacation!) and interesting story.
Closet Control: The Ultimate Guide to Revitalizing Your Wardrobe and Revolutionizing the Way You Store It - Barbara Horowitz - not much help. Lots of instructions on how to cut apart your T-shirts.
The King's Peace - Jo Walton - alternate universe King Arthur. Very good read.
Clarion II - anthology - I don't remember it, I read it so long ago. Many short stories.
Stellar 1 - anthology - I don't remember it, I read it so long ago. Many short stories.
Unfinished:
The Assassin's Edge - Juliet McKenna - I think the series got too long and complicated for me, so I gave up on this book.
Fires of Azeroth - C. J. Cherryh - The first two of the set were a drag, and I finally gave up.
Year's total: 101
A Companion to Wolves - Elizabeth Bear and Sarah Monette - interesting, and deals with the implications from the Pern books. I recall reading something about how the wolf packs are very far off real wolf packs, which are family groups.
Black Horses for the King - Anne McCaffery - nice YA King Arthur about how the horses came to Britain.
The Between - Tananarive Due - horror, and thus not my bag, but an interesting story and well told.
Magic in Ithkar 2 - anthology - science fiction/ fantasy and a nice collection of stories.
The Chinese Gold Murders - Robert Van Gulik - decent enough mystery, part of a set and I've read one of the others.
Mr. Campion, Criminologist - Margery Allingham - decent enough collection of Campion short stories. Mystery.
No Love Lost - Margery Allingham - not mystery stories, and sort of only okay.
Dead on Sunday - A. J. Orde - I like these mysteries, and this is no exception.
The Crown Jewels - Walter Jon Williams - nice light amusement of high society.
Final Curtain - Ngaio Marsh - one of the Alleyn series. Focusses on his wife, and a good read. I will probably hunt out the others.
The Golden Key - Melanie Rawn, Kate Elliot, Jennifer Roberson - a good read (vacation!) and interesting story.
Closet Control: The Ultimate Guide to Revitalizing Your Wardrobe and Revolutionizing the Way You Store It - Barbara Horowitz - not much help. Lots of instructions on how to cut apart your T-shirts.
The King's Peace - Jo Walton - alternate universe King Arthur. Very good read.
Clarion II - anthology - I don't remember it, I read it so long ago. Many short stories.
Stellar 1 - anthology - I don't remember it, I read it so long ago. Many short stories.
Unfinished:
The Assassin's Edge - Juliet McKenna - I think the series got too long and complicated for me, so I gave up on this book.
Fires of Azeroth - C. J. Cherryh - The first two of the set were a drag, and I finally gave up.
Year's total: 101
Books 2012 - 10
Sep. 3rd, 2012 02:56 pmDangerous Visions - anthology - ed. Harlan Ellison -
Again, Dangerous Visions - anthology - ed. Harlan Ellison - many of the stories in these try to use interesting narrative techniques (hello James Joyce stream of consciousness!) for the SF stories they are telling. I am not interested in interesting narrative techniques. I skipped the stories that did not catch my attention in the first few pages, and I did not bother to read many of Ellison's introductions. I dislike the person he presents on the page - in the second book, he goes off on people who complain about his selections when they have received a free review copy. I found the statement that James Tiptree is the man to beat for the Hugo highly amusing.
Bab: a sub-deb - Mary Roberts Rhinehart - humorous, set in the late teens. I can't help but be sympathetic to the main character, who has been raised to make a good marriage, but is stymied by not being out, as her older sister is not married yet.
Black Sheep - Georgette Heyer - amusing Heyer.
Unveiled -
Unclaimed -
Unlocked -
Unraveled - Courtney Milan - Regency romances. Fairly well done. Read them all in 1 weekend.
Warprize - Elizabeth Vaughan - a decent fantasy story masquerading as a romance. Will be looking for the followups.
The Score - Donald Westlake - I do not like the protagonist; I finished it because I wanted to see how it turned out; I will not be looking for any more.
Again, Dangerous Visions - anthology - ed. Harlan Ellison - many of the stories in these try to use interesting narrative techniques (hello James Joyce stream of consciousness!) for the SF stories they are telling. I am not interested in interesting narrative techniques. I skipped the stories that did not catch my attention in the first few pages, and I did not bother to read many of Ellison's introductions. I dislike the person he presents on the page - in the second book, he goes off on people who complain about his selections when they have received a free review copy. I found the statement that James Tiptree is the man to beat for the Hugo highly amusing.
Bab: a sub-deb - Mary Roberts Rhinehart - humorous, set in the late teens. I can't help but be sympathetic to the main character, who has been raised to make a good marriage, but is stymied by not being out, as her older sister is not married yet.
Black Sheep - Georgette Heyer - amusing Heyer.
Unveiled -
Unclaimed -
Unlocked -
Unraveled - Courtney Milan - Regency romances. Fairly well done. Read them all in 1 weekend.
Warprize - Elizabeth Vaughan - a decent fantasy story masquerading as a romance. Will be looking for the followups.
The Score - Donald Westlake - I do not like the protagonist; I finished it because I wanted to see how it turned out; I will not be looking for any more.
Books 2012 - 12
Jul. 29th, 2012 02:20 pmUncharted Territory - Connie Willis - okay. Sort of thin, compared to her other books.
Earthmen and Other Strangers - an old anthology. Nothing to make me want to keep it.
The Quiet Gentleman - Georgette Heyer - I do believe this will be one of my favorites by her.
The Stone War - Madeleine E. Robins - Interesting, and a good read.
Elemental Magic - anthology - well enough, but I gave it to a friend, instead of keeping it.
Great Science Fiction by Scientists - anthology - Well. All the scientists are men. As are all the characters. Some stories were decent, but I see no reason to keep it.
The Thief's Gamble -
The Swordsman's Oath -
The Gambler's Fortune -
The Warrior's Bond - all by Juliette McKenna - with a fifth book, which I've stalled in for a bit, really a single books spread across separate spines. Very good, with well rounded female and male characters. Much enjoyed. If I don't keep these, they're going to my nieces.
Ooku: The Inner Chambers, Vol. 7 - Fumi Yoshinaga - most excellent series. I am looking forward to reading all of them in sequence, once they are all out.
Stories from the Twilight Zone - Rod Serling - passes time. Not bad.
Year to date: 85
Earthmen and Other Strangers - an old anthology. Nothing to make me want to keep it.
The Quiet Gentleman - Georgette Heyer - I do believe this will be one of my favorites by her.
The Stone War - Madeleine E. Robins - Interesting, and a good read.
Elemental Magic - anthology - well enough, but I gave it to a friend, instead of keeping it.
Great Science Fiction by Scientists - anthology - Well. All the scientists are men. As are all the characters. Some stories were decent, but I see no reason to keep it.
The Thief's Gamble -
The Swordsman's Oath -
The Gambler's Fortune -
The Warrior's Bond - all by Juliette McKenna - with a fifth book, which I've stalled in for a bit, really a single books spread across separate spines. Very good, with well rounded female and male characters. Much enjoyed. If I don't keep these, they're going to my nieces.
Ooku: The Inner Chambers, Vol. 7 - Fumi Yoshinaga - most excellent series. I am looking forward to reading all of them in sequence, once they are all out.
Stories from the Twilight Zone - Rod Serling - passes time. Not bad.
Year to date: 85
The Room, Continued
Jul. 1st, 2012 03:34 pmSo, a few weeks ago, I moved a bunch of bookshelves around, which opened up the room, and gave a sense of space and immediate progress.
I have the hobby books segregated on a bookshelf, and the unread books on others, and I have a whole empty bookshelf to unpack books into! Yay! I can also purge as I unpack, which is very, very exciting. I am also reading a 5 novel set which I probably won't keep; I am trying to read down my unread pile, so as to free up the shelf space.
The computer is set up, and the desk is mostly cleaned, and ready to use!
I've started to purge files, and am making progress there. I think I will end up with significantly less paper. Woot.
I figured out what to use to replace the jewelry box I broke.
I just let go of a bunch of rubber stamps I won't use again. I'm keeping the ones I like. I never use the sealing wax, so ... bye!
The knitted kerchiefs I made a few summers ago? I never wear them. Bye!
I have an entire empty plastic rolley-cart, just waiting for me to figure out what to put in it!
This is so exciting - it feels do-able that I can have a clean, organized room, for the first time in my life. And once I get the room in shape, I have the room to clean out the other places (attic, basement, closet) where stuff collects, and get rid of the things in there, as well.
I have the hobby books segregated on a bookshelf, and the unread books on others, and I have a whole empty bookshelf to unpack books into! Yay! I can also purge as I unpack, which is very, very exciting. I am also reading a 5 novel set which I probably won't keep; I am trying to read down my unread pile, so as to free up the shelf space.
The computer is set up, and the desk is mostly cleaned, and ready to use!
I've started to purge files, and am making progress there. I think I will end up with significantly less paper. Woot.
I figured out what to use to replace the jewelry box I broke.
I just let go of a bunch of rubber stamps I won't use again. I'm keeping the ones I like. I never use the sealing wax, so ... bye!
The knitted kerchiefs I made a few summers ago? I never wear them. Bye!
I have an entire empty plastic rolley-cart, just waiting for me to figure out what to put in it!
This is so exciting - it feels do-able that I can have a clean, organized room, for the first time in my life. And once I get the room in shape, I have the room to clean out the other places (attic, basement, closet) where stuff collects, and get rid of the things in there, as well.
Books 2012 - 6
Jul. 1st, 2012 03:27 pmJuniper, Gentian, and Rosemary - Pamela Dean - interesting read; all the plot happens in the last 20-50 pages or so. If you don't mind that you might enjoy it.
Beyond Grimm - anthology - BVC - A nice collection of riffs on fairy tales by some of my favorite authors. Good summer reading.
V is for Vendetta - Sue Grafton - a nice murder mystery. I do like this series
Pulchritude - Ana Mardoll - ebook - very interesting take on Beauty and the Beast. Recommend.
Charity Girl - Georgette Heyer - a little less amusing that I usually like from her.
Lady of Quality - Georgette Heyer - much better than the above.
The Wind Done Gone - Alice Randall - oh my. What a brilliant different take on Gone With the Wind. Highly recommend if you've read the original.
Year to date: 73
Beyond Grimm - anthology - BVC - A nice collection of riffs on fairy tales by some of my favorite authors. Good summer reading.
V is for Vendetta - Sue Grafton - a nice murder mystery. I do like this series
Pulchritude - Ana Mardoll - ebook - very interesting take on Beauty and the Beast. Recommend.
Charity Girl - Georgette Heyer - a little less amusing that I usually like from her.
Lady of Quality - Georgette Heyer - much better than the above.
The Wind Done Gone - Alice Randall - oh my. What a brilliant different take on Gone With the Wind. Highly recommend if you've read the original.
Year to date: 73
On the Mess We Call My Room
Jun. 13th, 2012 09:59 pmI have lived in the same city for 18 years, and in the same house for 6 of them, and accumulated quite a lot of stuff. I'm now at a point where the equation is:
More stuff = more time & energy spent taking care of stuff = less time and energy for other things
I've done a lot of headwork in the past 9 years or so, and I no longer want and need to hold on to everything. I can let go now.
Since we moved here, I've mostly dealt with my stuff by shoving the mess into my room, where it was my problem and not hun's. I've gotten rid of some things in the past 3 years or so, but nowhere near the amount I want to.
The problem is this - everything has to be dug out, assessed, compared to other pieces to see what redundancy exists, and then disposed of (mostly donate or save). I want to have some sort of big, comprehensive plan for cleaning up this room, and work it through piece by piece, checking stuff off lists and feeling so accomplished.
But I've noticed that I can't summon the interest/energy/willpower/spoons to even make the big, comprehensive, perfect plan. Stuck in the mud, spinning the wheels.
I just moved my desk. I took the foot high pile off it, put it onto the extra bed - no sorting, no organizing, no assessing, no thinking - just moving it. The desk is in the corner, the computer is set up, the rolling file cart is underneath it, and the entire room is a massive wreck. Aside from that one corner. The plan - the hope - the dream - is that I will build on that one corner. Do a little bit, every day, until the whole darn thing is clean, neat, and organized.
Wish me luck!
More stuff = more time & energy spent taking care of stuff = less time and energy for other things
I've done a lot of headwork in the past 9 years or so, and I no longer want and need to hold on to everything. I can let go now.
Since we moved here, I've mostly dealt with my stuff by shoving the mess into my room, where it was my problem and not hun's. I've gotten rid of some things in the past 3 years or so, but nowhere near the amount I want to.
The problem is this - everything has to be dug out, assessed, compared to other pieces to see what redundancy exists, and then disposed of (mostly donate or save). I want to have some sort of big, comprehensive plan for cleaning up this room, and work it through piece by piece, checking stuff off lists and feeling so accomplished.
But I've noticed that I can't summon the interest/energy/willpower/spoons to even make the big, comprehensive, perfect plan. Stuck in the mud, spinning the wheels.
I just moved my desk. I took the foot high pile off it, put it onto the extra bed - no sorting, no organizing, no assessing, no thinking - just moving it. The desk is in the corner, the computer is set up, the rolling file cart is underneath it, and the entire room is a massive wreck. Aside from that one corner. The plan - the hope - the dream - is that I will build on that one corner. Do a little bit, every day, until the whole darn thing is clean, neat, and organized.
Wish me luck!
Books 2012 - lots (11)
Jun. 4th, 2012 09:04 pmRoyal Blood
Royal Flush
Naughty in Nice - all by Rhys Bowen - amusing fluff, much as the rest of the series.
Raven's Shadow
Ravens's Strike - Patricia Briggs - fun duology. Really a single book in 2 covers. Well drawn characters, interesting world. Recommend.
Luck in the Shadows - Lynn Flewelling - the first of an ongoing series. Muchly enjoyed. Will be looking for all the next ones (Casket of Souls just came out!)
Daddy-Long-Legs - Jean Webster - light little epistolary novel. Saw the major plot twist coming. It may mean more if I had read it at the right age to identify with the protagonist.
The Dreaming Place - Charles de Lint - apparently his first YA novel. Set in Newford. Okay, but not great, and a shorter read than many of his are now. Will be passing on.
Lady John - Madeleine Robins - read on nook - one of her Regencies. I highly recommend all of them, along with the Sarah Tolerance books.
Bitterblue - Kristin Cashore - What happens after the heroes save the kingdom? Very good read - third of a trilogy. Recommend all 3.
Drift - Rachel Maddow - I have never seen so many curse words in a non-fiction books, which tells you what dry tomes I usually read. An interesting look at how the deliberate restraints on warmaking built into the U.S. Constitution have been subverted, but Democrat and Republican alike. Recommend.
Year's total: 67
Royal Flush
Naughty in Nice - all by Rhys Bowen - amusing fluff, much as the rest of the series.
Raven's Shadow
Ravens's Strike - Patricia Briggs - fun duology. Really a single book in 2 covers. Well drawn characters, interesting world. Recommend.
Luck in the Shadows - Lynn Flewelling - the first of an ongoing series. Muchly enjoyed. Will be looking for all the next ones (Casket of Souls just came out!)
Daddy-Long-Legs - Jean Webster - light little epistolary novel. Saw the major plot twist coming. It may mean more if I had read it at the right age to identify with the protagonist.
The Dreaming Place - Charles de Lint - apparently his first YA novel. Set in Newford. Okay, but not great, and a shorter read than many of his are now. Will be passing on.
Lady John - Madeleine Robins - read on nook - one of her Regencies. I highly recommend all of them, along with the Sarah Tolerance books.
Bitterblue - Kristin Cashore - What happens after the heroes save the kingdom? Very good read - third of a trilogy. Recommend all 3.
Drift - Rachel Maddow - I have never seen so many curse words in a non-fiction books, which tells you what dry tomes I usually read. An interesting look at how the deliberate restraints on warmaking built into the U.S. Constitution have been subverted, but Democrat and Republican alike. Recommend.
Year's total: 67
Books 2012 - 7
May. 10th, 2012 08:28 pmCold Fire - Kate Elliot - a good read. Muchly looking forward to the next one!
Fire - Kristin Cashore - awesome YA. Muchly looking forward to the next one!
Glamour in Glass - Mary Robinette Kowal - sequel to Shade of Milk and Honey. Different, because the first was about finding a husband, at least partly, and this one is about how to make a life together.
The Power of Habit - James Duhigg - Interesting nonfiction for the non-scientist. Full of anecdotes. Recommend.
Her Royal Spyness -
A Royal Pain - Rhys Bowen - Silly murder mysteries, featuring a cousin of the British royals as a detective in the early 1930s. Amusing fluff.
The Stepsister Scheme - Jim Hines - a take on what happens after the fairytale ends. Not bad. Might take the rest of the series out of the library.
Year's total: 56
Fire - Kristin Cashore - awesome YA. Muchly looking forward to the next one!
Glamour in Glass - Mary Robinette Kowal - sequel to Shade of Milk and Honey. Different, because the first was about finding a husband, at least partly, and this one is about how to make a life together.
The Power of Habit - James Duhigg - Interesting nonfiction for the non-scientist. Full of anecdotes. Recommend.
Her Royal Spyness -
A Royal Pain - Rhys Bowen - Silly murder mysteries, featuring a cousin of the British royals as a detective in the early 1930s. Amusing fluff.
The Stepsister Scheme - Jim Hines - a take on what happens after the fairytale ends. Not bad. Might take the rest of the series out of the library.
Year's total: 56
Books 2012 - 7
Apr. 15th, 2012 12:17 pmGraceling - Kristin Cashore - excellent. If I had a daughter, I'd buy this book for her. Spoiler ROT13'd: Fb avpr gb unir n ebznapr gung qbrfa'g raq va zneevntr!
Dark Moon Defender -
Reader and Raelynx -
Fortune and Fate - Sharon Shinn -
Really good series. Am contemplating for my nieces. A variety of relationships, and relationship types, and the last book is what happens after the war is over, which is a really nice thing.
Isabella - Loretta Chase - ebook - Regency fluff. Amusing.
The Fifth Elephant - Terry Pratchett - one of the Watch Discworlds. A good read. I really do prefer the Witches to everyone else, I think.
Friday's Child - Georgette Heyer - ebook - amusing enough.
Year's total: 48
Dark Moon Defender -
Reader and Raelynx -
Fortune and Fate - Sharon Shinn -
Really good series. Am contemplating for my nieces. A variety of relationships, and relationship types, and the last book is what happens after the war is over, which is a really nice thing.
Isabella - Loretta Chase - ebook - Regency fluff. Amusing.
The Fifth Elephant - Terry Pratchett - one of the Watch Discworlds. A good read. I really do prefer the Witches to everyone else, I think.
Friday's Child - Georgette Heyer - ebook - amusing enough.
Year's total: 48
Books 2012 - 14
Mar. 25th, 2012 03:24 pmPentecost Alley -
The Hyde Park Headsman -
Belgrave Square -
Brunswick Gardens -
Bluegate Fields -
Ashworth Hall -
Southhampton Row -
Seven Dials -
all by Anne Perry. If you couldn't tell, I'm reading myself out on these, and then donating them to the library.
Cousin Kate - Georgette Heyer - nook - a somewhat Gothic Regency romance. Don't read if you have issues with representation of mental illnes....
The Thirteenth House - Sharon Shinn - second in the series. Quite a good read. Am waiting on the last 3 from the library
Never After - anthology - good reads - subverted fairy tales.
I am Half Sick of Shadows - Alan Bradley - another Flavia De Luce; good enough, but not great.
Dragon Bones - Patricia Briggs - another excellent read by someone who is consistently a good read!
The Broken Kingdoms - N. K. Jemesin - It took me a while to remember from the first book. Interesting read.
Year's total: 41
The Hyde Park Headsman -
Belgrave Square -
Brunswick Gardens -
Bluegate Fields -
Ashworth Hall -
Southhampton Row -
Seven Dials -
all by Anne Perry. If you couldn't tell, I'm reading myself out on these, and then donating them to the library.
Cousin Kate - Georgette Heyer - nook - a somewhat Gothic Regency romance. Don't read if you have issues with representation of mental illnes....
The Thirteenth House - Sharon Shinn - second in the series. Quite a good read. Am waiting on the last 3 from the library
Never After - anthology - good reads - subverted fairy tales.
I am Half Sick of Shadows - Alan Bradley - another Flavia De Luce; good enough, but not great.
Dragon Bones - Patricia Briggs - another excellent read by someone who is consistently a good read!
The Broken Kingdoms - N. K. Jemesin - It took me a while to remember from the first book. Interesting read.
Year's total: 41
Books 2012 - 4
Feb. 29th, 2012 08:30 pmSilence in Hanover Close - Anne Perry - ending a bit abrupt; otherwise, nicely crafted murder mystery. I especially like the bits where one character is acting as a lady's made in 1887 London. Not pleasant.
The Story of the Stone - Barry Hughart - amusing mystery. I will find the others in the set, but not buy them.
To the Resurrection Station - Eleanor Arnason - interesting book. Rather ... unfocussed? Atypical plot arc. Won't be keeping. Thinner book from the 70s; not as fleshed out as it would have been written 20-30 years later. Publisher would have allowed doorstop.
Mystic and Rider - Sharon Shinn - first of at least 5. Very good. Am in the second now. Probably won't keep. The entire book is spent on a trip to gather information and bring it back to the king. Obviously part of something larger. I do tend to like her books.
Year to date: 27
The Story of the Stone - Barry Hughart - amusing mystery. I will find the others in the set, but not buy them.
To the Resurrection Station - Eleanor Arnason - interesting book. Rather ... unfocussed? Atypical plot arc. Won't be keeping. Thinner book from the 70s; not as fleshed out as it would have been written 20-30 years later. Publisher would have allowed doorstop.
Mystic and Rider - Sharon Shinn - first of at least 5. Very good. Am in the second now. Probably won't keep. The entire book is spent on a trip to gather information and bring it back to the king. Obviously part of something larger. I do tend to like her books.
Year to date: 27
Books 2012 - 1
Feb. 21st, 2012 09:06 pmThe Thorn and the Blossom - Theodora Goss - received free from the LibraryThing Early Reviewers program
This book is beautifully designed. The clever accordion binding allows one to read the story from the point of view of either of the main protagonists. The artwork is fantastic.
The story is a sort of mystical romance story. I was hoping for something more explicitly fantasy. I also find the protagonists unbelievable, in what they give up and where they end up at the end of the story. The ending is also ambiguous, which is not something I care for.
Year's total: 23
This book is beautifully designed. The clever accordion binding allows one to read the story from the point of view of either of the main protagonists. The artwork is fantastic.
The story is a sort of mystical romance story. I was hoping for something more explicitly fantasy. I also find the protagonists unbelievable, in what they give up and where they end up at the end of the story. The ending is also ambiguous, which is not something I care for.
Year's total: 23
Books 2012 - 1
Feb. 21st, 2012 09:04 pmThe Secret Lives of Wives - Iris Krasnow - received free through the LibraryThing early reviewers program.
I was expecting something with more numbers and studies in it. Instead, this is a collection of anecdotes, and commentary on the author's own marriage.
As someone who is contemplating marriage, and in a 9 year relationship but not yet married, this book scares me. There is a lot of emphasis on how hard marriage is, and I saw very little in it that might encourage me to pursue one. I seem to recall hearing that marriage is detrimental to women's health. That research is not even brought up in this book.
The author has a definite viewpoint - you should get married, and stay married. And children are the glue that holds a marriage together. You should stay together if you are bored, unhappy, uncomfortable, for the sake of having a family, and not ripping apart the tapestry that a family becomes. You owe it to your forebears, and to your descendants, to maintain your place.
The background seems to be: A woman will get married, she will lose herself in taking care of the kids, then when they grow up and are out of the house, she will have the time and financial freedom to take up old hobbies and interests.
Most of the women she interviews are very well off indeed. 6 figure salaries. Enough money to take separate vacations.
She seems shocked at the swingers, in an open marriage.
She is very gender essentialist - she and her female friends seem to have some sort of "Sex in the City" thing going. She believes that you should have good male friends, but being friends with a guy is very different from being friends with a woman. Cherish the straight guys who actually want to have a conversation with you. Seriously. You can't expect your husband to talk to you, or listen to you. I find this a deeply weird attitude - people are people, friends are friends - why would I want to be with a person who doesn't talk to me?
I do agree with some of the underlying things in this book: do not expect your husband to be everything to you. Maintain interests outside of the relationship - a job, hobbies, friends.
This book was a disappointment, and I would not recommend it to anyone.
I was expecting something with more numbers and studies in it. Instead, this is a collection of anecdotes, and commentary on the author's own marriage.
As someone who is contemplating marriage, and in a 9 year relationship but not yet married, this book scares me. There is a lot of emphasis on how hard marriage is, and I saw very little in it that might encourage me to pursue one. I seem to recall hearing that marriage is detrimental to women's health. That research is not even brought up in this book.
The author has a definite viewpoint - you should get married, and stay married. And children are the glue that holds a marriage together. You should stay together if you are bored, unhappy, uncomfortable, for the sake of having a family, and not ripping apart the tapestry that a family becomes. You owe it to your forebears, and to your descendants, to maintain your place.
The background seems to be: A woman will get married, she will lose herself in taking care of the kids, then when they grow up and are out of the house, she will have the time and financial freedom to take up old hobbies and interests.
Most of the women she interviews are very well off indeed. 6 figure salaries. Enough money to take separate vacations.
She seems shocked at the swingers, in an open marriage.
She is very gender essentialist - she and her female friends seem to have some sort of "Sex in the City" thing going. She believes that you should have good male friends, but being friends with a guy is very different from being friends with a woman. Cherish the straight guys who actually want to have a conversation with you. Seriously. You can't expect your husband to talk to you, or listen to you. I find this a deeply weird attitude - people are people, friends are friends - why would I want to be with a person who doesn't talk to me?
I do agree with some of the underlying things in this book: do not expect your husband to be everything to you. Maintain interests outside of the relationship - a job, hobbies, friends.
This book was a disappointment, and I would not recommend it to anyone.